Mailbox: Should I Compromise To Keep Him?

Hi guys, an African Sweetheart reader needs your honest advise. If you have been in a similar situation or have some good advise please share.

I am not married but all the guys I have been with always say "you're wife material" because I have trained myself so well that maybe I don't even know what I could do to make the man leave.

Growing up I learnt a man will love you if he marries you a virgin, now am grown ripe for marriage the same men who sees me as a perfect wife leaves as soon as they see the no sex ingredient in the relationship.

My question is where have I gone wrong hoping to give my hubby this gift?

My environment is making me feel like a looser, and the bad girls are getting married to the making sense guys.

What should I do? I am attracted to a guy who has been noticing me for a while and let me know that he wanted a relationship. Once he found out that they would be no sex involved he said we should just be friends. I agreed, but whenever I am around he wants me to sit beside him, hug him blah blah, now it graduated to romance.. that's all I can do. I don't know  why I feel bad (maybe it's cos we haven't defined what we have) and I feel like have failed myself.
Please I need help..